3 Characteristics of Self-Love

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3 Characteristics of Self-Love

1. Mindfulness: Having an open, curious, non-judging attitude; not over-identifying with negative stories about the self.

2. Self-kindness: Treating yourself kindly, rather than harshly. Extending the same care and support to yourself that you would to a good friend or loved one.

3. Common humanity: Allowing yourself to be human, to make mistakes and learn from them. Knowing that as humans we are not perfect, nor should we be expected to act flawlessly.

You'll be impressed by how much it can transform the relationship with yourself and promote healthier ways of living. Self-love is much more effective in changing behavior than trying to motivate yourself with shame and self-criticism. Shame and self-criticism lead to inner rebellion and giving up, while self-love gives you hope and helps you trust the process of change.


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